When the memoirs of Mother Theresa were published they revealed that for the last 50 years of her life she had struggled painfully to feel God’s presence in her life. Her critics felt a certain delight: Underneath it all, they now believed, she was an agnostic, doubting the existence of God. Her devotees were confused: How could this happen to her? How could a woman of such exceptional generosity and seeming faith not be secure in her sense of God’s existence and providence?
What underlies both reactions is a failure to understand an experience as old as faith itself, that of being inside a
dark night of the soul. Looking at Mother Theresa through the eyes of Christian mysticism the better question might be: How could she not experience what she experienced? She was an extraordinary woman, a spiritual athlete, someone who had given her entire freedom over to God; might we not expect this to happen to her? Wouldn’t you expect her to experience a dark night of the soul?
What is a dark night of the soul?
A dark night of the soul is an experience where our felt-sense of God dries up and disappears. At the level of feeling, thought, and imagination, we are unable to summon up any sense of security or warm feelings about the presence of God in our lives. We feel agnostic, even atheistic, because we can no longer imagine the existence of God. God seems non-existence, absent, dead, a fantasy of wishful thinking.
But notice that this takes place at the level of the imagination and feelings. God doesn’t disappear or cease to exist. What disappears are our former feelings about God and our capacity to imagine God’s existence.
God exists, independent of our feelings. Sometimes our heads and hearts are in tune with that and we feel its reality with passion. Other times our heads and hearts cannot attune themselves to the think, imagine, and feel the existence of a God who ineffable, unimaginable, and Other and we experience precisely a certain absence, depression, or void when we try to imagine God’s existence and love.
We should expect this in our lives; Jesus experienced dark nights of the soul. Just before he died on the cross, he cried out in anguish, expressing feelings of being abandoned by God. But inside this seeming agnosticism something beyond his feelings and imagination held him steady and enabled him to give himself over in trust to Someone whom he could no longer imagine as existing. This wasn’t doubt, it was real faith.
Faith begins exactly where atheism assumes it ends.
Why are dark nights of faith given to us? Why does God seemingly sometimes withdraw his presence? Always to make us let go of something that, while it may have been good for awhile, an icon, is now causing some kind of idolatry in our lives.
Whenever we cry out in faith and ask God why he isn’t more deeply present to our sincerity, God’s answer is always the same one He gives in Scripture, time and time again: "
You will find me again when you search for me with your whole heart, your whole mind, and your whole soul, that is, when you let go of all the things that, right now, in your mind and heart you have mistaken for God!”(Excerpt from: Ron Rolheiser)